I think we all instinctively know we feel better after spending time with a special friend. We feel energized and happier. If we share a problem with a friend, we feel less hurt. But there's also this whole new body of research showing how profoundly friendships impact our emotional and physical health. Friendships protect us from depression and anxiety. They boost our immune system, and we have a healthier cardiovascular system when we spend time with friends. Our memory is enhanced and we sleep more deeply. The list goes on about how spending time with friends and having close confidantes supports our health.
Men need friendships, too. But the research shows that women are much more soothing and comforting than men. One study placed women and men in stressful situations and it found that people who were placed with a woman had lower stress level than people who were with a man. I think women tend to be better listeners; they don't try to fix things the way men do. And for many men, their best friends tend to be their wives. Men don't seem to be as comfortable sharing emotional intimacy with each other. They get together more around activities -- sporting events or work for instance.
Submitted By:George
Here are 5 more Reasons we all need friends:
1. Friends never judge you
One of the good things about friends is that they never judge you. They
will never interrupt you or ask any questions regarding whatever you are
doing or want to do in your life. On the contrary, they will always
support you and appreciate you for what you are doing. Friends always
help you and serve you without asking for your money, reward or any
dues.
2. Friends never leave you alone
Friends are like shadows that will always be with you. If you are
feeling sad or lonely, they would try to make you feel happy with their
company. They would do anything to make you laugh when you are crying.
They are the ones who, when you are silent, would sit beside you and
start talking. They would not let you be sad and demoralized.
3. Friends always listen to you
The other important thing about friends is that they always listen to
you when you are in a bad situation because they know that in their
difficult times you would be there for them. You would make yourself
available for them as they have done for you. With friends, you can
share your stuff. You can share your ideas, experiences of life and you
can solve each other’s problems.
4. Friends always encourage you
Friends are the ones who always keep you happy. They will always
motivate you to achieve your goal in life and they’ll even help you in
achieving that goal. They will encourage you. They can’t say ‘no’ for
anything.
5. Friends are trustworthy
You can trust your friends completely. You can share anything with them.
Friends are the ones with whom you can share your personal things and
they will not breach your trust. Only friends will feel happy when you
achieve success. In this fast running world and cut-throat competition,
only a good friend can be the greatest source of relief.
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